Bengali Girls appear 'easily-availabile' to other State boys?
Wrote this on 29th August, 2019 at 2 pm in Facebook in relation to certain posts insulting Bengali girls from some IDs carrying names of non-Bengali boys.
It's a common perception amongst many people in other States of India that Bengali girls are too easily available. "Do take ke liye bhi Bangali ladkiya toh bistar ke niche chale aate Hain", they say. But why do they say so? It's easy to protest against their words spoken but how to fight that perception? Why such a perception exists amongst many people of many other States of India about Bengali girls? Let's look into it step by step.
First of all, Bengal is a land of Matripuja. Shakta tradition of Bengal reflects in Durgapuja being the Prime Festival of Bengalis all over the Globe. Male chauvinism is not that pronounced here in Bengal as it is there in many other States. Hence, our girls are groomed to be much open-minded & liberal. This is the original tradition of Bengal. Bengal girls are mentally not that insecured as girls in other States of India perhaps are. This is due to the socio-cultural ambience of Bengal.
Then came the communist era. In order to actually draw a line of demarcation between men & women, communists loudly preached pseudofeminism. Girls became even more daring. Nasty, sexually provocative, upstart behaviour in the name of Women's liberation & equality became visible in certain Educational Institutions of West Bengal which were fuelled by LEFTISTS. Leftists, thus, made many women unsober, carefree, more aggressive & hence, vulnerable to all sorts of offences including sexual offence. Left-minded women started flaunting equality almost always, in every sphere. They started to try being boys & didn't feel happy being girls any more. Communists taught women to hate womanhood, turn down feminity, turn down our original & traditional practices which provided inherent protection to women against assaults. Communists preached, 'why & where are you less than a man'? Many girls too got misled by the devastating spree of pseudofeminism. They too thought & were verbose 'why & where are we less than men?' Thus they started trying to be 'men' & lost the instinctive strength & the inherent line of defence of being women in due course.
However, the rest of India remained as chauvinist as they still are. Irrespective of the professional liberty that girls of most other States acquired in due course of time, they remained socially dominated by staunch patriarchal set up. Women of other States too proceeded a lot in different fields of performance like Education, Sports, Culture but remained highly answerable to chauvinism in their social & family lives. Open-minded & vocally liberal girls from Bengal appeared easy prey for such chauvinist men. In spite of the fact that they feel attracted towards these liberal minded Bengali girls, they never perhaps respect them deep in their mind. They feel liberal girls to be cheap as their open-minded, cordial behavior with unknown men appear to the chauvinist men as positive signals towards more intimate free-mixing. So they catch up with them. The Bengali girl too falls in his trap thinking that he's in love with her whereas in reality, he just feels sexually attracted towards her 'easy-availabily' (in his perception) but not perhaps to her 'self'.
Communist grooming taught girls too much equality but didn't teach them self-protection & neither encourage instinctive restraint to be practiced by girls. Flaunting equality too much led them to overlook the harsh reality. These girls, if got involved with such boys, didn't often notice the deep-rooted disrespect for themselves in the minds of those boys. Such boys developed such nasty ideas about Bengali girls. "Do take ke liye bhi Bangali ladkiya toh bistar ke niche chale aate Hain"! I feel immense pain to state that communists caused extreme harm to the grooming & psyche of Bengal youth especially of girls. Communists consciously rendered orchestrated effort so that Bengal youth deviates from their root, their original culture which was inherently rich & provided due importance to both men & women. Equality is not in women's being men. Equality is all about everyone's receiving their due position in the society. Communists tried all out to change this perception. They weakened both men & women of Bengal physically, mentally & in terms of our value-system.
Now, let's look into the geo-political realities of Bengal. Bengal is a plain land full of natural resources including dense population. People of Bengal don't have to work very hard for a living. Since they get easy livelihood & a cozy climate, people of Bengal are not so materialist in general. They're not truly money-minded. They're emotional, they're crazy, they're creative, they're intelligent, they may even be highly analytical but not so money-minded. Girls too are no exception here. Bengali girls are more emotional than materialistic. Whereas girls of other States are much more concerned about their own security & hence looks for material assurance, Bengali girls fall for emotions & a couple of words of love. But for most of the chauvinist non-Bengali boys, simple words of love carries no value & can easily be said without much effort. They perhaps always remain ready to say those words without really meaning them. That's why when chauvinist boys from other parts of India tries to hook Bengali girls, the girls fall for them very easily. And the boys, in turn, think them to be cheap. Such boys don't often have that sensitive a mind to address her emotions. Moreover, emotions often have no value for them. But to a Bengali girl, emotional attachment combined with her liberal grooming & desperation for love becomes all-important.
Thus such derogatory remarks about Bengali girls come from those boys. Before I conclude here, I would like to add a statistics to show how vulnerable Bengal women have become. As per latest available data of NCRB, WEST BENGAL IS NO 1 IN INDIA IN WOMEN TRAFFICKING.
It's a common perception amongst many people in other States of India that Bengali girls are too easily available. "Do take ke liye bhi Bangali ladkiya toh bistar ke niche chale aate Hain", they say. But why do they say so? It's easy to protest against their words spoken but how to fight that perception? Why such a perception exists amongst many people of many other States of India about Bengali girls? Let's look into it step by step.
First of all, Bengal is a land of Matripuja. Shakta tradition of Bengal reflects in Durgapuja being the Prime Festival of Bengalis all over the Globe. Male chauvinism is not that pronounced here in Bengal as it is there in many other States. Hence, our girls are groomed to be much open-minded & liberal. This is the original tradition of Bengal. Bengal girls are mentally not that insecured as girls in other States of India perhaps are. This is due to the socio-cultural ambience of Bengal.
Then came the communist era. In order to actually draw a line of demarcation between men & women, communists loudly preached pseudofeminism. Girls became even more daring. Nasty, sexually provocative, upstart behaviour in the name of Women's liberation & equality became visible in certain Educational Institutions of West Bengal which were fuelled by LEFTISTS. Leftists, thus, made many women unsober, carefree, more aggressive & hence, vulnerable to all sorts of offences including sexual offence. Left-minded women started flaunting equality almost always, in every sphere. They started to try being boys & didn't feel happy being girls any more. Communists taught women to hate womanhood, turn down feminity, turn down our original & traditional practices which provided inherent protection to women against assaults. Communists preached, 'why & where are you less than a man'? Many girls too got misled by the devastating spree of pseudofeminism. They too thought & were verbose 'why & where are we less than men?' Thus they started trying to be 'men' & lost the instinctive strength & the inherent line of defence of being women in due course.
However, the rest of India remained as chauvinist as they still are. Irrespective of the professional liberty that girls of most other States acquired in due course of time, they remained socially dominated by staunch patriarchal set up. Women of other States too proceeded a lot in different fields of performance like Education, Sports, Culture but remained highly answerable to chauvinism in their social & family lives. Open-minded & vocally liberal girls from Bengal appeared easy prey for such chauvinist men. In spite of the fact that they feel attracted towards these liberal minded Bengali girls, they never perhaps respect them deep in their mind. They feel liberal girls to be cheap as their open-minded, cordial behavior with unknown men appear to the chauvinist men as positive signals towards more intimate free-mixing. So they catch up with them. The Bengali girl too falls in his trap thinking that he's in love with her whereas in reality, he just feels sexually attracted towards her 'easy-availabily' (in his perception) but not perhaps to her 'self'.
Communist grooming taught girls too much equality but didn't teach them self-protection & neither encourage instinctive restraint to be practiced by girls. Flaunting equality too much led them to overlook the harsh reality. These girls, if got involved with such boys, didn't often notice the deep-rooted disrespect for themselves in the minds of those boys. Such boys developed such nasty ideas about Bengali girls. "Do take ke liye bhi Bangali ladkiya toh bistar ke niche chale aate Hain"! I feel immense pain to state that communists caused extreme harm to the grooming & psyche of Bengal youth especially of girls. Communists consciously rendered orchestrated effort so that Bengal youth deviates from their root, their original culture which was inherently rich & provided due importance to both men & women. Equality is not in women's being men. Equality is all about everyone's receiving their due position in the society. Communists tried all out to change this perception. They weakened both men & women of Bengal physically, mentally & in terms of our value-system.
Now, let's look into the geo-political realities of Bengal. Bengal is a plain land full of natural resources including dense population. People of Bengal don't have to work very hard for a living. Since they get easy livelihood & a cozy climate, people of Bengal are not so materialist in general. They're not truly money-minded. They're emotional, they're crazy, they're creative, they're intelligent, they may even be highly analytical but not so money-minded. Girls too are no exception here. Bengali girls are more emotional than materialistic. Whereas girls of other States are much more concerned about their own security & hence looks for material assurance, Bengali girls fall for emotions & a couple of words of love. But for most of the chauvinist non-Bengali boys, simple words of love carries no value & can easily be said without much effort. They perhaps always remain ready to say those words without really meaning them. That's why when chauvinist boys from other parts of India tries to hook Bengali girls, the girls fall for them very easily. And the boys, in turn, think them to be cheap. Such boys don't often have that sensitive a mind to address her emotions. Moreover, emotions often have no value for them. But to a Bengali girl, emotional attachment combined with her liberal grooming & desperation for love becomes all-important.
Thus such derogatory remarks about Bengali girls come from those boys. Before I conclude here, I would like to add a statistics to show how vulnerable Bengal women have become. As per latest available data of NCRB, WEST BENGAL IS NO 1 IN INDIA IN WOMEN TRAFFICKING.
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